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The ultimate hostess shares her secrets.

I think even to receive it, you never are disappointed when you get a beautiful candle.

Its a luxury that a lot of times I dont even afford myself.

Maybe a little bath soap or bath ball, with a little welcoming note.

Again, maybe a little candle.

Then they see it right there.

No one takes them.

On Assigning Place Cards At Dinner

I love it.

Especially when you do it with purpose.

Its a well thought-out symphony, really.

Especially if youre matchmaking, then youve really got to think about it.

On Calming Down If Youre An Anxious Host

People put too much pressure on themselves.

I think the key for the hostess is to do as much preparation beforehand.

You dont have to do seven courses.

You dont even have to serve it or plate it you might serve it buffet style.

doesnt really become the focus.

I have no problems with that none whatsoever.

There have been many times Ive gently walked someone up the stairs and said, Go to sleep now.

Usually, they get in those cozy sheets and duvet and are in full agreement with me.

This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

This article was originally published onNovember 15, 2022

source: www.bustle.com