Dating
Men are like cabs.
When theyre available, their light goes on.
The next woman they pick up boom!
Thats the woman they marry.
Thus, cab light theory was born.
TherapistMichelle Herzoggave me a straight answer.
This simply isnt true.
Attitudes about dating arent one-Manolo-Blahnik-fits-all.
crave close relationships), men are more likely to have an avoidant attachment style (i.e.
And recently many men have taken to TikTok claiming thatguys instantly knowwhen they meet the love of their life.
While cab light theory might ring true in your experiences, it relies on enforcing stereotypical gender roles.
It also diminishes women to passengers along for the ride.
Nowsingle women outnumber single men in being homeowners.
Even if cab light theory feels real, try not to cling onto it too tightly.
Still, lets not dismiss the idea entirely.
What the cab light theory brings is a reminder that you oughta be on similar timelines, Francis says.
Rather than assuming what someones looking for based on their gender, have a conversation about it.
Be clear with yourself about what kind of relationship youre looking to create with another person.
Communicate your needs, Herzog advises.
Dont worry about whether someone elses light is on.
Instead, embrace your rightful spot in the drivers seat.
This article was originally published onFeb.
source: www.bustle.com
